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Can I date my ex's sister?

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dprouse

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Haven't been on here for awhile, my rebuild is coming along slowly but nice! Frame is powder coated and I have my +3 lonestar swing arm mounted. Just waiting for some nice weather to take her outside and finish the build.

Now to the question at hand lol, I was engaged to my ex for about 4 months and she left me because I am not a mormon. We were together almost 3 years and she moved out while I was at work without saying a word. After all this she says she wants to be friends and I actually had to be very rude and say alot of things I didn't mean just to get her to drop the whole friend thing. This happened on 12/04/12. She is also ******* around with her coworker already.

Now her half sister who is the same age as me, has A LOT more in common with me and I too would not mind trying to date is always talking to me, hanging out and mentioning dating.

Do I go for it and see what happens or am I asking for trouble? What do you guys think? I am honestly thinking of dating her, taking it slow and seeing what happens
 
Better find out now if she's the same as what you just went through, a mormon that's flirting with coworkers...
 
Dating, sure why not. If you've always wanted to get in her pants you may as well try.. There will be trouble for sure!!

Here is a fun letter that has been floating around for a few years.

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"Dear Susan :
I know the counsellor said we shouldn't contact each other during our
"cooling off" period, but I couldn't wait anymore. The day you left, I
swore I'd never talk to you again. But that was just the wounded little
boy in me talking. Still, I never wanted to be the first one to make
contact.

In my fantasies, it was always you who would come crawling back to me. I
guess my pride needed that. But now I see that my pride's cost me a lot
of things. I'm tired of pretending I don't miss you. I don't care about
looking bad anymore. I don't care who makes the first move as long as
one of us does. Maybe it's time we let our hearts speak as loudly as our
hurt. And this is what my heart says...

"There's no one like you, Susan." I look for you in the eyes and breasts
of every woman I see, but they're not you. They're not even close. Two
weeks ago, I met this girl at Ithaca Bar and brought her home with me. I
don't say this to hurt you, but just to illustrate the depth of my
desperation. She was young, maybe 19, with one of those perfect bodies
that only youth and maybe a childhood spent ice skating can give you. I
mean, just a perfect body. Jugs you wouldn't believe and an ass like a
tortoise shell . Every man's dream, right? But as I sat on the couch
being blown by this stunner, I thought, look at the stuff we've made
important in our lives. It's all so superficial. What does a perfect
body mean?

Does it make her better in bed? Well, in this case, yes. But you see
what I'm getting at. Does it make her a better person? Does she have a
better heart than my moderately attractive Susan? I doubt it. And I'd
never really thought of that before. I Don't know, maybe I'm just
growing up a little.

Later, after I'd tossed her about a half a pint of throat yogurt, I
found myself thinking, "why do I feel so drained and empty?" It wasn't
just her flawless technique or her slutty, shameless hunger, but
something else. Some ****ling feeling of loss. Why did it feel so
incomplete? And then it hit me.

It didn't feel the same because you weren't there, Susan, to watch. Do
you know what I mean? Nothing feels the same without you. Jesus, Susan,
I'm just going crazy without you. And everything I do just reminds me of
you.

Do you remember Carol, that single mom we met in Upper Side last year?
Well, she dropped by last week with a pan of lasagna. She said she
figured I wasn't eating right without a woman around. I didn't know what
she meant till later, but that's not the real story. Anyway, we had a
few glasses of wine and the next thing you know we're banging away in
our old bedroom. And this tart's a total monster in the sack. She's
giving me everything, you know like a real woman does when she's not
hung up about her weight or her career and whether the kids can hear us.
And all of a sudden she spots that tilting mirror on your grandmother's
old vanity. So she puts it on the floor and we straddle it, right, so we
can watch ourselves. And it's totally hot, but it makes me sad too.
'Cause I can't help thinking, "Why didn't Susan ever put the mirror on
the floor? We've had this old vanity for what, 14 years, and we never
used it as a sex aid."

Saturday, your sister drops by with my copy of the restraining order. I
mean, Vicky's just a kid and all, but she's got a pretty good head on
her shoulders and she's been a real friend to me during this painful time.

She's given me lots of good counsel about you and about women in
general. She’s pulling for us to get back together, Susan, She really
is. So we're drinking in a hot bath and talking about happier times.
Here's this teenage girl with the same DNA as you and all I can do is
think of how much she looked like you when you were 18. And that just
about makes me cry. And then it turns out Vicky's really into the whole
anal thing and that gets me to thinking about how many times I pressured
you about trying it and how that probably fuelled some of the bitterness
between us.

But do you see how even then, when I'm thrusting inside your baby
sister's cinnamon ring, all I can do is think of you? It's true, Susan.
In your heart you know it. Don't you think we could start over? Just
wipe out all the grievances and start fresh? I think we can.

If you feel the same please, please, please let me know, otherwise, can
you let me know where the remote control is.

John"
 
Ooh, you can...., lol! I guess the good part is that she's only a half sister so maybe it takes something else to turn on the crazy switch. It's gonna get nuts man, the X is gonna cause drama guaranteed. I think if you get along good with this girl you might want to wait a bit just because there's gonna be controversy with the X and you don't want the beginnings of this relationship dealing with that BS.
 
Is it even a question. Both sisters... Yes sir... **** I hit up twins when I was in college. Hahaha one of my best memories actually hahaha
 
Hahaha thanks guys, first thing I would never get back with the ex cuz she would just do the same thing again, second the family is already mad at the sister for leaving the mormon church cuz she doesn't believe in their crazy ideas.

I will date her and take things real slow, that way if the ex ruins things at least me and Mendy can stay friends
 
Dp if she left the morman church graber while you can if ya got alot in common do it just have her come to your house for a while lol
 
She's the only one in that family with a brain if she left the Mormon church! Went over Mormons in theology sophomore year of high school, them suckers are wacked or stupid whichever way you look at it.

I say go for it, the rest of the family probably doesn't like either of ya! No inlaws! Bonus!
 
She's the only one in that family with a brain if she left the Mormon church! Went over Mormons in theology sophomore year of high school, them suckers are wacked or stupid whichever way you look at it.

I say go for it, the rest of the family probably doesn't like either of ya! No inlaws! Bonus!
LOL!!! My wife is mormon! They do have some extreme views, but they are very family orientated. My wife has never tried to get me to convert to mormon because she respects my religious beliefs and we get along better than I have with any other woman in my life.
 
The one thing that really got me thinking was the sister was the one who said something about dating first, that was a bold move on her part considering the situation.

And you guys have no clue how crazy and brainwashed some mormons are. I live in Idaho and have been singled out my entire life because me and my family are "non members".
Oldwarriorrider you are lucky to have someone so open minded and sharing that she will accept you for who you are. You truly are a lucky man
 
Oh biggest flaw in that religion, no alcohol? I mean come on no alcohol?! WTF? What is wrong with having a few drinks?
 
If you guys have chemistry, get along wel, are around each other a lot, and genuinely like one another, I'd say to try it out. Honestly what do you have to loose? If the family is pissed at her, then like a few others have said, NO in laws! Or, very little contact with them. That is always a bonus. Just think, you don't have to make those "apperiences" that is required of you. And, sense she has a brain, can think for herself, and knows that the morman faith is whacked, then you know she's probably the real deal.
 
Best advice advice ever guys! Thank you for all the feedback, I brought this here cuz I knew I would get honest answers. Best forum out there and best taste in quads too!

You guys make me proud to be a yfm350.com member! I guess to pay you all back I will post some pics of my rebuild tonight ;)
 
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